by Cat Skreiner

Decoded: Musings on Human Design for living your BEST life

BUSINESS / CAREER / RELATIONSHIPS / PARENTING

Hey Reader,

Let’s talk about identity.

About who we think we are. Who we’ve been told to be. And who we become when the noise quiets down.

The Undefined G Centre

44% of the population have an undefined G Centre - the centre that governs identity, love, direction, and magnetism.

It’s the heart of who we are and where we’re going.

It’s the diamond shaped in your chart that asks, Who am I? and Where is my place in the world?

[Below is my chart showing the undefined G/Itdentiy Centre - the diamond in the centre of the bodygraph.]

If yours is undefined, your identity is not fixed.

You’re a social chameleon - able to play different roles, reflect different energies, and become whoever you need to be in the moment.

You can move fluidly between identities. You can sense what others need and shape-shift to meet it.

But sometimes, that same adaptability can make you lose sight of yourself.

You might cling to labels - your astrology sign, your Human Design type, your title - because they give you something to hold onto. Something that says, This is who I am.

Big-picture goals, five-year plans, rigid identities… they’re not your thing.
You live life through evolution and response, not through fixed direction.

At times, you may define yourself by what you do for others. You see the love people have for your work - but struggle to believe they can love you, just as you are.

When You’re Out of Alignment

You might be searching for yourself in all the wrong places - in achievements, relationships, validation.

You might change your focus constantly, chasing the version of you that finally feels “right.”

You might over-give, over-prove, or over-perform to be loved.

It can feel clingy, codependent, even hopeless at times.

Like no matter what you do, you’re never quite home in yourself.

When You’re In Alignment

You allow yourself to be loved - not because you’ve earned it, but because you exist.

You trust that who you are right now is enough.

You stop trying to fix your identity and instead let life show you who you are becoming.

You take on roles that feel correct for the moment, not because you “should.”

You flow with change. You magnetise the right people and opportunities by being where your heart feels right.

My Own Experience

I know this one intimately.

When I co-founded a business years ago, I didn’t realise I was trading pieces of myself for belonging.

Each decision, each conversation, chipped away at who I was until all that remained was who I thought I should be. I wore clothes that felt like a costume, as if each outfit was part of a performance I hadn’t auditioned for. I’d zip myself into identities that looked the part but never felt like home.

And at L’Oréal, the message was loud and clear: success had a look, a tone, a shape.

So I tried to fit it. Even when it didn’t fit me.

With a completely open G Centre, I’ve spent much of my life reflecting the identities of others.

It made me adaptable. Approachable. But it also meant I could forget who Cat was when the noise got too loud.

What I wish I’d known back then - what Human Design showed me - is that I was never supposed to have a fixed identity.

I wasn’t lost.

I was simply open.

What the Undefined G Centre Teaches

With an undefined G, your gift is adaptability.

You’re here to experience many versions of yourself - not to lock into one.

You can be anyone, anywhere, at any time - and that’s your superpower.

When you’re in the right environments, you thrive. When you’re not, you feel off course.

The right spaces and people don’t just inspire you - they align you. They remind you of who you are.

What I Know Now

I have openness.

Adaptability.

Wisdom about love and direction that only comes from not knowing for most of my life.

My life is richer because I’ve been many versions of myself.

And I finally understand that I was never meant to choose just one.

Why This Matters in Business and Career

In business, we’re told to define ourselves clearly.

To find a niche. Stick to a brand. Know exactly who we are.

But if you have an undefined G Centre, that advice can feel suffocating.

You’re not meant to box yourself in - you’re meant to evolve.

To shift. To grow. To let your work reflect your current truth, not your past one.

When you stop forcing yourself to “figure it out,” you make space for alignment to find you.

That’s the power of Human Design - it gives you permission to stop trying to be someone you’re not, and instead, live as the person you already are.

Acceptance isn’t just peace - it’s power.

And it’s the foundation of a life and business that finally feel like home.

I'd love to know if this resonated, particularly if you also have an undefined G Centre.

Kindest,

Cat

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